Why do people want to climb to the mountaintop? Why do people speak of the mountaintop experience like it’s some kind of nirvana and the valley as though it is the despair of life? The valley is where the food grows and the stream flows. The valley is where the village is. The valley is where the community is. People live in the valley. Structures are built on mountaintops for defensive reasons—very difficult to get water and food up there.
I doubt Mary was on the mountaintop when the angel Gabriel came to her.
I’ve climbed often to the top of a mountain near my home. Having gained the summit, I generally spend a few moments and then climb back down. Not much to do up there. One time I was, yet again, suffering a bout of depression. I didn’t know how to get well. While sitting on the mountaintop looking down at the valley I felt discouraged. I cried out to Jesus to make me well from this gnawing emptiness—this nothingness that was a something which couldn’t be seen or felt or touched, the effects of which were vague and intangible at best.
When people speak of the valley of despair, I wonder if they really mean a narrow, deep, dark ravine that one might fall into. The valley to me is the life enriching place where nourishment—physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual—is to be found. Both the ravine and the mountaintop are the outlier experiences. Those with bi-polar run up the mountain and then fall into the ravine. Those with depression find themselves trapped in the ravine. And those who visit the mountaintop often? Perhaps those are the extroverts that love to become celebrities.
Why do people long for “the mountaintop experience”? I don’t know. I prefer life in the valley, far from the ravine.
The mountaintop and ravine as outlier experiences – great conception, Ellen.
Thanks, Tim. It came to me as I was jotting these ideas down this morning.
Life is lived in the valley. The mountaintop experiences may be a time of refreshing for the soul, a time of quiet respite from all the busyness of living, but it’s not where life happens. As you said, there’s not a lot going on up there. I love the mountaintop, but we’re not meant to stay there long.
I have tumbled into the ravine a few times myself, and it’s a terrifying, paralyzing, emotionally brutalizing experience, but it makes life in the valley that much sweeter.
I think so much suffering in our day to day lives comes when we think that we’re not living unless we’re always on the mountaintop. As I get older and experience more of life’s happenings, I find so much joy in the day to day things, so much to be grateful for in the steady pace of ordinary life. Extraordinary mountaintop moments would soon become blasé valley experiences if we had them all the time. It is their temporary nature which makes them such a treasure. The stuff of life happens in the valley.
If we’re nourished in the valley, there’s a greater likelihood we’ll have the strength to survive a tumble into the ravine when it happens…as it eventually does to all of us, in one way or another. 🙂
Excellent post, Ellen!
Thanks, Stephanie! I really appreciate your reflections; they are well said! “The stuff of life happens in the valley.” Indeed, it does. “If we’re nourished in the valley…” I’m working to have better nourishment practices for myself and my family. I’m discovering that writing nourishes me as does people coming and discussing what I’ve written. 🙂
Ha Ha Ha! While I was reading Stephanie’s comment, my son looked beyond me out the window and yelled, “SQUIRREL!”
Sure enough, there was a squirrel twitching on the fence outside the window.